Nourish | January Prompt

Nourish | verb [nur-ish] | to supply with what is necessary for life, health, and growth; to cherish, foster and keep alive.
Quote: When we nourish ourselves with good people, projects, surroundings, scenery, love, magic, beauty, and self-care, we radiate light into the world and continually sharpen our vision, perception, and clarity all at once. This in turn spreads to other beings which spreads to other beings which spreads to even more. Remember that one tiny drop can raise an ocean. Keep wanting. Desiring. Doing. Breaking in the sweet things. – Victoria Erickson

Reason Why: As I mentioned in my first post, I had a bit of a hard time choosing this word. After two years of choosing words that were event-focused, I wanted to choose a word that would help me focus on me. I am craving nourishment. I have put self-care on the back burner due to lack of time, energy and effort. I need to slow down and make time for myself and the things that God wants me to make priorities in my life. I am worth it.
Take Action:
MORE nourishment.
MORE slowing down, LESS letting moments pass me by.
MORE deep conversations, LESS technology.
MORE self-care, LESS unreasonable expectations.
MORE grace, LESS impatience.
MORE healthy foods, LESS fast foods.
MORE yoga and meditation.
MORE journaling, LESS bottled up emotions.
LESS worry, anxiety, frustration.
MORE humility, LESS pride.
MORE, MORE, MORE love. For myself and for others.
Currently
Time: 11:01pm
Location: the couch
Feeling: tired of politics already, anyone else?
Loving: the weather the last couple days
Learning: how to prioritize my time and become more efficient
Reading: Restless by Jennie Allen (so good)
Drinking: Very Berry Refreshers
Anticipating: the weekend already, Monday sucked.
Listening: to the Deep Focus spotify playlist
Watching: the Iowa Caucuses
Wearing: Mizzou gear, is it football season yet?
Planning: my Project Life layout for January.
Creating: a notebook just for my One Little Word.
Needing: a 10 hour nights sleep and then to stay in bed all day. #adultingsohard
Photographing: landscape style as much as possible.
How you doin’?
Traveler’s Notebook Inspiration | Morning Pages
Morning pages are one of my favorite practices that I’ve carried over from 2015. I discovered this practice last year through Julie Cameron’s book The Artist’s Way. I really enjoyed the book and it had a spiritual aspect that I definitely wasn’t expecting, but the intensity that it required with all of the prompts and weekly artist meetings with myself just wasn’t something I could prioritize at the time. That being said, morning pages are introduced in the beginning of the book and come highly highly encouraged by Julie if you plan on succeeding creatively.
While this “self-help” style book is meant to reduce creative block, Julie is very straightforward in letting the readers know that the purpose of the morning pages is to clear your mind. Though it may sound counter-intuitive to write when you’re “blocked”, she suggests that you write three pages on loose-leaf style paper, first-thing in the morning. When each page is complete, she suggests sliding them into a large envelope without looking back at them, at least for a few months.
When I first started, I followed Julie’s tips closely although I did use a composition notebook because I didn’t want to have loose sheets of paper running around my house. Similarly, I often write before I get out of bed so this made it easier because of the hard surface of the notebook cover. I didn’t use any specific pen and often allowed my handwriting to be atrocious. The first couple days, I would write until I couldn’t think of ANYTHING else and then I would fill up the rest of the pages with “I have nothing else to write about” over and over again. If you’re thinking, “what a waste of time”, then you’ve read my mind because that was exactly what I was thinking. As I navigated the first week of pages, writing all three quickly got easier and I began to allow myself to include bullet style journaling (more information on bullet journaling here and here) within those pages as well. I would then transfer those important to-do items and lists over to a different notebook before closing up the book for the day.
Here’s the deal. Sometimes these pages are super prolific and wonderful and sometimes they are bogus, but every time I feel relieved that they are done and ready to start the day. It’s like all of the swirling thoughts get dumped out and I have room for new (and often more productive) ones. I don’t even force myself to write all three pages anymore, because I often know what it feels like when I’m done and ready to move on with my day. I haven’t graduated to a nice notebook because, chances are, I’m going to throw this one away. Anything even remotely interesting has been transferred somewhere else.
How to make morning pages work for you:
Find a time that works. It’s clear by the title that the intention for this practice is for it to be done first thing in the morning before you do anything else. While this is ideal, I don’t think it’s realistic for everyone. Lately, I can hardly roll over to check the time in bed without Chloe (our dog) hopping up to let me know that – regardless of what the clock says – it’s time to eat and go outside. In my opinion shooting for the same time every day is a win. In the past, I’ve found that having a journaling routine directly before bed helps to alleviate the buzz of thoughts before falling asleep. Regardless, I think that this is something that needs to be done when it’s most convenient for you, otherwise you won’t do it.
Make them handwritten. This is a must. I originally thought that writing would be tedious and annoying and sometimes it is, but for the most part it’s worth it to have no distractions.
Don’t stop. At first it may feel silly but if you can’t think of anything just write “I can’t think of anything to write” over and over until you think of something. I promise it will come. The subject doesn’t matter and neither does your grammar or spelling. Just write.
Have a system. Whether it’s a pen and loose-leaf paper that you keep in a folder or a journal that you keep next to your bed, try to keep it consistent. This doesn’t have to be anything special, but I think having all of the junk in one journal will help the creative process everywhere else. Pro tip: spoil yourself and use a fountain pen or nice paper! I’ve found I lose the nicer things a heck of a lot less.
Get comfy. This really gets to the heart of cultivating a good routine. If you’re in a hurry and uncomfortable, you won’t want to continue the process. It will undoubtedly be miserable and just make matters worse! Pro tip: have a specific spot where you go to write like a desk or comfy chair by a window and enjoy a cup of coffee as you write it out.
You’re worth it. Above anything else, what I’ve found from doing these morning pages is that just the practice of having this outlet and making time for myself is a form of self care that is so worth it. It helps me start my day on a good foot and only takes fifteen minutes.
Go ahead and give it a shot. What are you waiting for? It doesn’t have to be great, it just simply has to be.
The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up
I guess you could say that I’m kind of in love with self-help books lately. I’ve noticed it since I graduated college, so I guess I’m trying to make up for my lack of 24/7 learning. The thing that I find most interesting is that while in college I learned a lot about myself physically (because I studied Nutrition and Exercise Phys) but now I’m using books to learn more about myself mentally and emotionally, which is pretty darn cool (and not to mention helpful). So when I choose my word for the year this year, I knew that I wanted to make some alterations to my perspective and part of that was about wanting to simplify things down and give myself permission to be creative more often. I was recently talking with one of my friends who mentioned that she keeps a capsule wardrobe because it allows her to think less about what she is wearing so that her creativity can be used on other things. I loved that. I often have to be in a certain mindset to think creatively and having clutter and access supplies and things make it really hard to do that.
*Then enters The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up*
When this book came out, everyone and their mother read it. I saw blog post after blog post boasting reviews and videos on how to fold clothes and steps that other people were taking to get their spaces clean. I was a huge skeptic about this book to begin with because, let’s be honest, how can THIS many people like a self-help style book that revolves around cleaning your house? It just seemed a little crazy to me.So I thought I’d outsmart the system. We just started purging all of the things. We cleaned our house from top to bottom getting rid of everything that we didn’t like, didn’t use, or that was broken. We got rid of a lot of stuff. But what I didn’t realize was that while, yes we did purge, we weren’t learning how to not just keep filling up those “empty spaces”.
So now here I am, being THAT person. Writing THAT exact blog post about how this book is changing my life. #embarrassing
I think the thing that I enjoyed most about the book was how she talked about what a cluttered home meant and how it affects other parts of your life. Lately, I have been feeling less creative and I just know that it has to do with the way that my space makes me feel. She says, “A messy room equals a messy mind. Visible mess distracts us from the true source of disorder.”
Here were my main takeaways:
Tidy in one shot | Marie suggest completing the whole ordeal in less than six months. She urges us not to just buy more storage because it’s just a illusion that the clutter problem is solved.
Sort by category, not location | Marie gives an order for your tidying: clothing, books, papers, miscellaneous items, sentimental items, and finally photos. If you want a more detailed list with check boxes, check this one out.
Use “does it spark joy?” as criterion for selection | As you go through each set of items, she tells you to hold each thing in your hand and ask yourself “does this spark joy?” At first, I thought this would be SO hard for me. I typically don’t think of objects as things that bring me joy, but the more I put it into practice, the more it made sense for me. I realized quickly that the longer I had to think about the question, the more it meant that the answer was no. If it is something that doesn’t spark joy, Kondo’s advice is to thank these items for their service because they have filled a specific role in your life. Acknowledge their contribution and then send them away with gratitude.
Reduce until you find the right balance for you | Marie assures readers that you’ll know when the amount of stuff feels right for you. I’m glad she mentions this because I think many people are under the impression that this book is about minimalism but it’s really just about loving, enjoying and feeling relaxed in your space.
Designate a space for each item | After you get done discarding, make a space for each thing that does spark joy. Then when you move those things, they have a specific place to go back to. Part of this process includes some pretty specific folding tactics that I’d never seen before so I had to google them. Try this, it saves tons of room.
I’ve only just started this process, but so far I am feeling extra excited about it. I’ve gotten through my clothes and books, so papers are next. We do have a pretty good system set up for our important papers but I’m sure there are things I can get rid of (because I know that I still have middle school report cards and ACT test info…yikes). If nothing else, this book has helped me get motivated to reorganize and declutter our space. I look forward to updating everyone in about 6 months or so to let you know how it works out!
One Little Word 2016
For the first time since I’ve been choosing words, I really struggled with picking something that I thought would be adequate. Last year was such a big and busy year and I wanted to follow that with something a little more..well, relaxing. Yet something that would make an impact. I threw around the words whole, thrive, bold, simplify, enough, and joy (again) before finally landing on nourish. I chose it because I felt like nourish encompassed many of the other words while bringing a peaceful feeling that I personally want to embody this year.
Nourish | verb [nur-ish]
to supply with what is necessary
for life, health, and growth; to
cherish, foster and keep alive.
Besides making a couple yearly goals, I’m planning on making smaller monthly goals to encourage self-care, nourishment, and the completion of my bigger goals. I’ve found that upon setting goals in the past, I often only complete them by chance unless I make them ridiculously visible. The first of the year, always starts out so strong so I’m hoping that this will help throughout the year as well.
Goals for January
Journal Everyday: I’ve always kept a journal but I’ve had a hard time being consistent with it. This month, I’ve committed to completing Madison Hedlund’s Come Alive Journaling Guide.
Unsubscribe from unnecessary emails: I’m getting over 50 emails a day and even though I don’t have push notifications on my phone, it’s still pretty obnoxious and seeing new products and other blogs makes it harder to find contentment in the things that I have. I’d also love to clear out my RSS feed and start over.
Finish watching House of Cards Season Three: You know I gotta be ready for the fourth season. (If you haven’t watched this yet, you should get on it. The next season comes out in March.)
Write 20 blog posts: My goal is to write about half of those for this blog and half for WrittenWorship.com. I really want to be committed and I know that consistency is important in making habits.
Purchase business cards: this one has been on my list for a while and shouldn’t be hard to complete.
Girl’s weekend: next weekend I’m getting together with some friends and I’m SO excited about it. We’ve been planning it for a while, which is why I’m considering it a “goal” for this month.
OLW: complete Ali Edward’s E-Course and Prompts for January.
Take two classes at Wilson’s: I’m ready to get my exercise on, slowly but surely.
Grow Herbs: Kevin gave me an indoor garden for Christmas and now I’m in the process of growing six different types of herbs that we are going to integrate into our cooking!
This is my fourth year choosing a word and for me, it is so much more rewarding a fulfilling than making resolutions I can’t stick to. This is a lifestyle change, full of imperfections, sure, but most importantly grace. So here’s to nourishing myself, my faith, my marriage, my relationships, and many other aspects of my life.
If you haven’t picked a word, it’s not to late to do so! I’d love to hear which word you’ve decided on!
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Hi, I'm Jacqueline - believer, learner, and all around hobby enthusiast. I'm married to my highschool sweetheart, Kevin, and we live in the midwest with our sweet pup.
On this blog I share all kinds of things about my life - from my faith journey to the garden in my neighbors backyard. I've been blogging for almost eight years and use this space as a way to document my daily life.
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