Coffee Date

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If we were on a coffee date, we’d head somewhere local. As usual, I’d choose an iced chai latte over coffee or anything else. It’s over 100 degrees with the heat index (not to mention as muggy as all get out), so we’d stay inside and huddle in a booth for as long as we both could get away.

If we were on a coffee date, I’d ask what’s up with you. Then I would ask again because I’m finding that this tactic really gets to the real stuff and neither of us would be surprised that I’m skipping right over small talk.

If we were on a coffee date, the enneagram would obviously come up. I’d ask if you know your “type” yet and if you didn’t, I’d sit there while you looked at the type descriptions and I might even encourage you to take a quiz. There’s a lot of options out there and a lot of research to really dig into. I’d tell you all about reading The Road Back to You last month and we’d talk about how I’m a type 8, also known as the challenger. I’d tell you that I cried when I found out because, while I felt like it described me, I didn’t feel like it was describing someone who followed Jesus and loved other people. It’s taking a little getting used to, but I’m embracing it now and using it to my advantage.

If we were on a coffee date, we’d talk about my bathroom remodel. We’ve been working on the details of this for over three months at this point, so it’s about time that we get to work on it. Kevin and I are lucky to have lots of family and friends offering to help with our first big home project. I can’t wait to share more about it here.

If we were on a coffee date, we’d have to discuss the Caps winning the Stanley Cup. While it would have been awesome to see the Golden Knights win in their inaugural season, a lot of people didn’t feel the team was “fair” because of the way the expansion draft worked. That being said, I’m really happy to see Oshie holding the cup, I knew it was going to happen eventually, I just wish it would have been with the Blues. Also. This video.

If we were on a coffee date, we’d discuss all the summer plans. We don’t have too much planned other than a trip to California and I’m not mad about it. I’m contemplating starting a 101 in 1001 project where you share 101 goals you hope to complete in 1001 days (or 2.75 years). I found out about this some time ago, but it never really felt like the right time. I have a lot of fun things I want to do, so now just might be the time to try it out.

What would you tell me if we were on a coffee date?


Today I’m linking up with Erin for her monthly coffee date linkup. Join Us!

Little Letters

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Dear hubby, thanks for having a dance party waiting when I got home from work on Monday. It’s the only thing that got me through this week. Dear spring, next time you decide to no call no show, can you at least ask the humidity to play nice? Dear enneagram, I haven’t done this much research on something in a long time and I am having all the feels about being an 8. LOL Dear farmers market, thanks for providing me with plants that are supposed to keep the mosquitos away. Things are going great with my lavender, but the lemongrass looks (and is growing) like a weed. Dear sweet girl Chloe, now that you have your own hashtag on IG, we’re going to have to start setting up weekly photoshoots. I hope this doesn’t cut into your nap schedule. Dear window quoter, sorry for making things awkward when you asked if I was “the owner of the home”. Sometimes I still ask myself the same question. Dear internet, you took the words right out of my mouthDear basement hangout, I’m adding you to the list of non-negotiables for all future houses. Westworld, PUBG, and Jack Box Party Pack games just wouldn’t be the same without you. Dear one little word, let’s connect a little better in the second half of the year. Ya dig? Dear IRL and virtual friends, I’m so thankful that you stopped by.


Today I’m linking up with Kristen over at Taz + Belly where lots of friends will be sharing their little letters!

Currently

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T R A V E L I N G

We just got back from a trip to Vegas and we’re headed to California at the end of the month. I love everything about traveling, especially the whirlwind of adventure. I’m also feeling a little bit spoiled with all these days off work.

G R I L L I N G

When it’s not boiling hot, we’re grilling burgers and steak for Philly Cheesesteaks on the flattop. Love seeing the guys hanging out around the grill from the kitchen window.

E X P L O R I N G

Lately I’ve been exploring more of what it looks like for me to cut back on social media. I’ve taken a couple hiatuses and would like to make it a more permanent thing – especially with facebook. I know that in some regards, I’m hiding behind my phone addiction and the faux connections I find there, but dang, it’s so hard to break it.

P L A N T I N G

We’ve been seeding parts of our backyard and I’ve got both lavender and lemongrass growing, but other than that, we’re out on planting this year. I’ve always wanted to have a huge garden (and still want to someday) but our current backyard and trees don’t allow for the kind of sunlight that encourages good growth for those kinds of things.

P L A Y I N G

I’m currently playing lots of podcasts and my Summer Spotify Playlist on repeat. Summertime makes me a sucker for country songs and windows down driving. Does anyone else create new playlists each month or season?


Today I’m joining Anne, at In Residence, for a ‘Currently’ linkup that she hosts on the first Wednesday of every month. Be sure to pop over and see what everyone else is up to!

Book by Book

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This month, I’m linking up with Kristin and Rachel for their Book by Book Link Up. It’s a way to share all the books we’ve read and get new ideas for new books to add to our lists. Below, you’ll find the books I read in May and what I thought about them.

★★★★★ – All time favorite, there aren’t many of these in the world.

★★★★☆ – Loved this book, held my attention and made me want to keep reading.

★★★☆☆ – Good book, I liked it.

★★☆☆☆ – It was fine, definitely won’t be recommending it to my friends.

★☆☆☆☆ – I finished it, but it wasn’t that great.

☆☆☆☆☆ – Didn’t bother finishing it. There are too many books on the shelf to finish one that isn’t grabbing my attention.


Capturing Light: The Heart of Photography

by Michael Freeman

Non Fiction – Photography | ★★★★☆

In almost all photography it’s the quality of light that makes or breaks the shot. For professional photographers, chasing the light, waiting for it, sometimes helping it, and finally capturing it is a constant preoccupation ― and for some an obsession. Drawing on four decades of doing just this, Michael Freeman takes a simple but practical approach to reacting to, and capturing photography’s most important commodity.

I received this book as a gift for Christmas and have been reading it on and off ever since. I really got a lot out of naming the light forms and patterns and the effect that each one has on a photograph. Being able to identify the source on a photo helps to be able to know how to recreate an image or how to improve on your photography in the future. Personally, I think I got more from reading this book slowly and allowing myself to try out some of the lighting techniques as opposed to just reading it all at one time. I’ll definitely be using this as a reference and it’s a beautiful coffee-table sized book to keep around.


Ruth’s Journey: The Authorized Novel of Mammy from Margaret Mitchell’s Gone with the Wind

by Donald McCaig

Fiction | ★★★☆☆

“Her story began with a miracle.” On the Caribbean island of Saint Domingue, an island consumed by the flames of revolution, a senseless attack leaves only one survivor—an infant girl. She falls into the hands of two French émigrés, Henri and Solange Fournier, who take the beautiful child they call Ruth to the bustling American city of Savannah. What follows is the sweeping tale of Ruth’s life as shaped by her strong-willed mistress and other larger-than-life personalities she encounters in the South: Jehu Glen, a free black man with whom Ruth falls madly in love; the shabbily genteel family that first hires Ruth as Mammy; Solange’s daughter Ellen and the rough Irishman, Gerald O’Hara, whom Ellen chooses to marry; the Butler family of Charleston and their shocking connection to Mammy Ruth; and finally Scarlett O’Hara—the irrepressible Southern belle Mammy raises from birth. As we witness the difficult coming of age felt by three generations of women, gifted storyteller Donald McCaig reveals a portrait of Mammy that is both nuanced and poignant, at once a proud woman and a captive, a strict disciplinarian who has never experienced freedom herself. But despite the cruelties of a world that has decreed her a slave, Mammy endures, a rock in the river of time. She loves with a ferocity that would astonish those around her if they knew it. And she holds tight even to those who have been lost in the ravages of her days.

This one automatically gets a decent rating for being a prequel to Gone with the Wind. I had high expectations when I started this one because it was written by Donald McCaig – the same person who wrote Rhett Butler’s People, which I enjoyed. Unfortunately, I almost put it down because the storyline had a hard time keeping my attention and was a little off put by a couple spelling errors I came across. My favorite parts were hearing Mammy’s side of the story – being Ellen’s mammy (something we don’t get to see in GWTW), young Scarlett, and Mammy’s first interaction with (and feelings about) Rhett Butler. Overall, I don’t regret reading it, but it’s not something I would recommend unless you’re a die-hard GWTW fan (like myself).


The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery

by Ian Morgan Cron, Suzanne Stabile

Non-Fiction – Christian | ★★★★★

The Enneagram is an ancient personality type system with an uncanny accuracy in describing how human beings are wired, both positively and negatively. In The Road Back to You Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile forge a unique approach―a practical, comprehensive way of accessing Enneagram wisdom and exploring its connections with Christian spirituality for a deeper knowledge of God and of ourselves. Funny and filled with stories, this book allows you to understand more about each of the Enneagram types, keeping you turning the pages long after you have read the chapter about yourself. Beginning with changes you can start making today, the wisdom of the Enneagram can help you get on the road that will take you further along into who you really are―leading you into places of spiritual discovery you would never have found on your own, and paving the way to the wiser, more compassionate person you want to become.

It didn’t take long for me to become obsessed – I love all things personality related (Myers briggs, birth order, etc) but this one takes the cake for me. I first learned about the Enneagram at the end of 2017 but because the online descriptions seemed a little vague, I decided I would hold off on the book and I’m so mad that I did. When I started reading this, I immediately determined my type and realized why it isn’t so cut and dry – because we all exhibit each of the numbers, but there is one we lean into the most. There is so much value in knowing about yourself and the way you interact with others, especially on a spiritual level. If you read this book and love it, I would also highly recommend Ian’s podcast, Typology.


The Year of Less: How I Stopped Shopping, Gave Away My Belongings, and Discovered Life is Worth More than Anything You Can Buy in a Store

by Cait Flanders

Non-Fiction – Memoir/Self Help | ★★★☆☆

In her late twenties, Cait Flanders found herself stuck in the consumerism cycle that grips so many of us: earn more, buy more, want more, rinse, repeat. Even after she worked her way out of nearly $30,000 of consumer debt, her old habits took hold again. When she realized that nothing she was doing or buying was making her happy–only keeping her from meeting her goals–she decided to set herself a challenge: she would not shop for an entire year.
I listened to this book in a day when I was cleaning and working around the house and, first of all, can I just say how much I love authors reading their own story? I got turned on to this book from the Young House Love Podcast (episodes 89 and 93, specifically) and their shopping ban. Even though this book is often listed as ‘self-help’, the writing and story telling style felt much more like a memoir. This isn’t Dave Ramsey or The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up but she definitely tells her story about getting to both of those places and how consumerism affected her life. In a more subtle way than over-doing it with numbers, it definitely made me think about starting my own challenge and what my own “less” looks like.

 

That’s it for my May reads! We’re halfway done with the year and I’m exactly half way done with my reading challenge of 20 books in 2018. This month, I’d LOVE to stock up on beach reads, let me know if you have any recommendations!

Connect | June Goals

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On the Blog in May

May Goals

Monthly

  • Apply for RE License (Continued from April) – Yikes. I wish this wasn’t still on the list. Maybe in June?
  • Enjoy a whole week off work(!!) – the best! Can I take a week off every month?
  • Shop for and purchase a bridesmaid dress for Brittany’s wedding  BOOYA! And it came in already!

Weekly

  • Celebrate others – Yep!

Daily

  • Blog Post (Part of The 100 Day Project) – I posted 12 of 31 days in May.
  • Exercise – ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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June Goals

Monthly

  • Cultivate a New Morning Routine
  • Budget with Kevin
  • Apply for a Passport
  • Read 3 Books
  • Finish Vegas Travel Journal
  • Apply for RE License (Continued…)

Weekly

  • Celebrate others!
  • Review Budget
  • Weekly Meal Plan & Shop
  • Connect with Friends

Daily

  • Move Goal
  • Food Tracking
  • Blog Post (Part of the 100 Day Project)
  • Journal

What are your June goals?