2018 Year in Review
Happy 2019! I just love the feeling of a New Year, not because it’s anything special, but because it gives me time to reflect and celebrate victories of the year and look forward to the next. One of my very favorite posts from last year was my year-end review of 2017, and at the end of an exhausting 2018, it feels even more imperative to count the good things.
January
- We rang in the New Year at our house with some very close friends and yummy food.
- I kicked off the year with my one little word, Connect, in hopes of prioritizing my connection with God through deeper prayer, connecting with my body, exploring more natural household and beauty products, being more intentional with my online connections, and creating space for vulnerability.
- We celebrated Chloe’s 5th Birthday with a big ole treat. Our girl is spoiled.
- My best friend, Brittany, got engaged and they set a wedding date for September! I literally screamed when the text came through and was thrilled when I realized I would get to see her multiple times in one year.
- We played lots of games with friends: Bananagrams, Jackbox, What Do You Meme?, Utter Nonsense, Code Names and Forbidden Island.
- Book Read: Grit: Passion, Perseverance, and the Science of Success
February
- I took on a daily photo challenge in February and learned a lot more about the DSLR I purchased last year.
- After lots of studying, I PASSED MY REAL ESTATE EXAM. Kevin surprised me with a sign in the yard and yummy dessert.
- I completed Liz Lamoreux’s 21 Day Tell It: Collage ECourse. Highly recommend.
- Helped Taylor paint almost every room in their new house. Truly one of the sweetest memories of our friendship.
- Brittany asked me to be the matron of honor in their wedding.
- Kevin traveled for work for the first time, and Chloe and I held down the fort.
- We got some amazing weather, so we opted for a picnic and the obligatory family feet photo.
- Books Read: Unoffendable: How Just One Change Can Make All of Life Better and All the Leader You Can Be: The Science of Achieving Extraordinary Executive Presence
March
- Kevin and I celebrated our 3rd wedding anniversary.
- It snowed the most beautiful sloppy snow, and I snapped my favorite photo ever of our home. Check out Chloe watching me through the window.
- We celebrated a HUGE milestone in our debt free journey.
- Mom and I went to a cooking class to learn all about how to use and cook with an Instant Pot. Macaroni and Cheese game changer, my friends.
April
- We celebrated our Two Year Highridge Ranch-iversary, which meant it was time for a little home reno project. April was the start of the research phase.
- We upgraded to iPhones with Portrait mode. Game. Changer.
- Books Read: A Praying Life: Connecting with God in a Distracting World and 10% Happier: How I Tamed the Voice in My Head, Reduced Stress Without Losing My Edge and Found Self-Help That Actually Works, Yes Please
May
- I had an entire week of PTO to burn (or lose), so we took a last minute trip to Las Vegas!
- Sarah saw us struggling to take selfies in our new hammock, and offered to take these photos of us. For sure, my favorite photo of us this year.
- We made the last payment on our Honda Civic – a couple years early!
- Books Read: The Year of Less: How I Stopped Shopping, Have Away My Belongings, and Discovered Life Is Worth More Than Anything You Can Buy in a Store, Capturing Light: The Heart of Photography, Ruth’s Journey, and The Road Back to You
June
- We traveled with my family to La Jolla, CA for a week and stayed in a stunning house on the coast.
- We started on our bathroom renovation project after having a window installed and a couple months of researching.
- Books Read: Great at Work and The Sacred Enneagram: Finding Your Unique Path to Spiritual Growth
July
- We celebrated fourth of July at Missouri’s state capital with Alex and Tony.
- Kevin’s brother, Dave, moved in with us (and Chloe gained a best friend)!
- Kevin had surgery to remove his gallbladder and we spent time recovering.
- Books Read: The Genius of One, One Thousand Gifts, 12 Ways Your Phone is Changing You, and Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone
August
- I celebrated my 27th birthday (without a major break down).
- I made a prayer binder to help focus on my prayer life and goal of connecting with God.
- We completed the bathroom renovation and I’m thankful (a million times over) for family that helped us through the project. We could not have done it without them.
- Books Read: The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, 7: An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess, and Cultivate: A Grace-Filled Guide to Growing an Intentional Life
Photo by Matt Mason Photography in Lake Geneva
September
- Kevin started streaming Overwatch and PUBG on Twitch regularly.
- I celebrated 8 whole years of blogging.
- I flew with Taylor out to Milwaukee for Brittany’s Bachelorette Party. So. Much. Fun.
- We tailgated a whole bunch and hosted the Ernsts for Taylor’s first ever Mizzou game!
- I stood beside Brittany and Evan as they tied the knot in the beautiful town of Lake Geneva. We definitely celebrated the night away.
- Book Read: Girl, Wash Your Face
October
- We celebrated the wedding of our friends, Alexa and Andrew, in St. Louis.
- I finally finished Friends which I started last December, and despite enjoying the show, took a long break from TV.
- We stayed at home for the first Halloween since moving into our house, and we had lots of trick-or-treaters!
- Books Read: The Road Back to You
November
- We experienced an autumn with the most beautiful colors I can remember…
- …and then it snowed for the first time of the season.
- I got acrylic nails for the first time and loved them.
- I started Bible Journaling through Grace and Gratitude (haven’t finished yet, but the beginning was fun.)
- We purchased a new skinny Christmas tree and put it up way too early. No shame.
- I decided on my 2019 word of the year, rest.
December
- I saw the play A Christmas Carol and spent quality time with my parents while Kevin was in Denver.
- Kevin turned 27 (yep, he’s younger than me).
- The press released Kevin’s biggest project to date. So stinkin’ proud of him.
- We spent a difficult Christmas in St. Louis surrounded by family and friends.
- I tried Top Golf for the first time and somehow managed not to come in last.
- We rang in the New Year with friends, cats, and Barred Owl.
Cheers to 2019!
Grace and Gratitude – Day 4 of 100
Grace and Gratitude – Day 3 of 100
Grace and Gratitude – Day 2 of 100
Six Years of One Little Word
For the past six years, I’ve chosen a word to focus on for 365 days. As I think about my word for 2019, I thought it would be fun to reflect on past words and how they have impacted me.
Joy – 2013
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Bible Verse:You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore. Psalm 16:11 (ESV)
Intention: At the time, my intention was to learn to live in the moment and stop wishing away each day in hopes for the weekend or the next thing. I wanted to be thankful for all that I had been given. Psalm 16:11 was my favorite and I wanted to discover how that fit into my daily life.
What I learned: Joy isn’t necessarily the opposite of sadness and definitely doesn’t mean that hard days don’t exist. It is about finding the little things to be thankful for and spending time in God’s presence. I read One Thousand Gifts by Ann VosKamp for the first time and it really played into the gratitude aspect of this word for me.
Rooted – 2014
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Bible Verse: So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness. Colossians 2:6-7 (NIV)
Intention: Kevin helped me choose this word as a reminder that I was right where God wanted me to be. My main intention for 2014 was to choose to be rooted in my decisions and in my God. Following His plans and making the best decisions for my future, so that I can be my best and my happiest. I chose this word because I was going to be making a decision about where I was going to find a job and live following college.
Blog Posts: Rooted (A Couple Years Later)
What I learned: Making the decision to stay in the same city felt like being planted in the same pot with new soil and fresh rain. I realized that we had already built a foundation and friendships, we just needed to change our mindset that this was “home”. Finding and getting involved in a community church as opposed to a church through our college made a big difference in that.
Adventure – 2015
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Bible Verse: Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go. Joshua 1:9 (NIV)
But Ruth replied, “Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God. Ruth 1:9 (NIV)
Intention: I chose adventure knowing that Kevin and I were going to be getting married and moving in together. I wanted to focus on trying new things (like cooking, hosting, owning my own business) and being happy with not immediately being good at them.
What I learned: Kevin surprised me with our honeymoon destination and I think that really opened my eyes to the idea of being spontaneous and not needing to be in control of every single thing. In the first year of marriage and living together, you really have a lot to figure out – sometimes being adventurous meant cooking new meals and it also meant having a car breakdown two hours away from home and having to figure out buying one in a pinch without it seeming like we were in a pinch.
Nourish – 2016
Bible Verse: For everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving, because it is consecrated by the word of God and prayer. If you point these things out to the brothers and sisters, you will be a good minister of Christ Jesus, nourished on the truths of the faith and of the good teaching that you have followed. 1 Timothy 4:4-6 (NIV)
Intention: I was looking for a more peaceful and relaxing word to encompass a lot of the goals I had in the realm of self-care. I wanted to slow down and make time for myself and the things that God wanted me to make priorities in my life.
Blog Posts: The Year of Nourish | The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up | January Prompts | A Nourishing 2016 (Traveler’s Notebook Flip Thru)
What I learned: By the end of the year, the term self-care felt over used as an excuse not to do hard things, which wasn’t my intention. I am proud of the way that I scheduled (yes, actually scheduled on my calendar) time in for myself and grew as a person during this year.
Thrive – 2017
Bible Verse: They are like trees planted along the riverbank, bearing fruit each season. Their leaves never wither, and they prosper in all they do. Psalm 1:3 (NLT)
Intention: My intention with thrive was to live intentionally and outside of my comfort zone. I kept thinking “thrive, not just survive” and I think that came from the feeling that life was flying by me. For the first time, I felt the settle in of routine without new classes, the excitement of getting engaged and married, new house, new jobs, etc.
Blog Posts: The Year of Thriving | Thriving in the Garden
What I learned: I feel like one of the easiest traps to fall into is the one of discontentment, which is what I was trying to fight. I know that I personally am often looking toward exciting events, weekends, and the next thing without actually living in the moment. I did some learning on how to be content with what I have – capsule wardrobes and minimalism – and I think for me I realized that to some degree, I’ll always be longing for something more because I was made for eternity, and glory with God.
Connect – 2018
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Bible Verse: You, God, are my God, earnestly I seek you; I thirst for you, my whole being longs for you in a dry and parched land where there is no water. Psalm 63:1 (NIV)
Intention: My goal was to prioritize my connection with God and take action to work on relationships in my life, including my relationship with myself and the things I’m putting in/on my body.
Blog Posts: The Year of Connect
What I learned: Connection has felt like a fairly passive word for me, because it came a lot easier than expected. I feel like this year has solidified a lot of friendships I’ve made over the past couple years and was easily transferrable to my job as well, in the way that I invested in co-workers and formed partnerships. As far as connecting with myself, I did a lot of research on the Enneagram (I’m an eight) and that’s been really eye opening to my motivation and certain parts of my personality that felt misunderstood, even by me.
I’m hoping to finish the year strong with connect and really glean every possible thing I can from it at this moment. At the beginning of 2019, I’ll be sharing my new word of the year, which is already all picked out. Any guesses as to what it might be?
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Hi, I'm Jacqueline - believer, learner, and all around hobby enthusiast. I'm married to my highschool sweetheart, Kevin, and we live in the midwest with our sweet pup.
On this blog I share all kinds of things about my life - from my faith journey to the garden in my neighbors backyard. I've been blogging for almost eight years and use this space as a way to document my daily life.
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