It’s hard to believe that a year ago, the world completely shut down. One night we were out to dinner for our anniversary and the next we were making plans to start working from home. What we all thought was going to be two weeks to “slow the spread” has turned into a year of unknowns with a small light that we’re all hoping and praying is the end of the tunnel and not another mirage.
It’s been a crazy year, to say the least. I don’t want to downplay the destruction and sadness and loss. In a world where that hurt is everywhere you turn, it can be hard to even look back on. For me, there has been so much growth that’s happened here. We’ve had to pivot a thousand times, try new things, think outside the box, ask for help, and have gratitude for the little things (like having toilet paper, pups who are happy to have you working from home, and curb side pick up dates with Kev).
When talking with a friend recently I mentioned that quarantine reminded me of an intense Sabbath. And as I dig into that, I know it doesn’t all line up, but the quiet, the sitting with yourself, family time, fresh air, and reliance and faith in God truly refreshed my soul in such a weird and lonely time. As we hope to emerge into the other side of this pandemic life, I’m sure it will be easy to fall back into the habits that look more like the other six days of the week, which for me always prioritize productivity and busyness. Another friend recently encouraged me to write down ways that I want to continue living out this Sabbath lifestyle post-COVID. While we’re definitely not out of the woods yet, here’s what I hope to remember:
- I never want to take for granted feeding people around our table. It doesn’t matter how messy our house, how crazy the dogs, or how simple the meal. This is a place for people.
- I want to continue treating my body like it’s loved for what it is, not what I want it to be. I spent a ton of time outside exercising and walking the dogs and I want to continue the rhythm of including that in my day.
- I want to wear clothes that are comfy. If working from home and not seeing people without a mask on has taught us anything, it should be that we can go out in public in a groutfit.
- I never want to take for granted fountain soda or eating inside of restaurants. Sorry not sorry.
- I never want to take hugs for granted. Social distancing has done a number on our personal bubble. Let’s reduce it for our family and friends after COVID.
- During COVID, Kevin launched FinalVibe to focus on legacy and the way we spend our lives which lead to a lot of amazing conversations about our lives and the future. I hope to continue living intentionally and numbering my days.
- I want to continue pursuing my relationship with God in a way that recognizes my need for Him, and the reality of my lack of control (despite how I sometimes feel).
- I never want to go a year without some kind of travel. You know the feeling when you want to do something just because you can’t? Wanderlust just hits different in 2021. I can’t wait to look up Cayman Islands flights and finally go on a vacation.
- Don’t take for granted plans that aren’t cancelled. I had entire weeks and months crossed out in my planner, I hope that never happens again.
If you’re reading this, I hope you’ll take time to think a little deeper about the ways that COVID has changed you, and all the things you never want to take for granted when this is all over. I’d love to hear your thoughts if you’re up to sharing them down below. ❤️