Life Lately

It’s been over three months since I’ve shared anything in this space, which is probably one of the longest hiatuses I’ve taken since starting my blog in 2010. I spent a lot of 2017 focusing on (read: overthinking) my purpose and my why for everything I do. That being said, I know I want to continue writing and sharing my life in this little corner of the internet but I know I want it to feel different. I’m still trying to figure out what it’s going look like, but right now there’s no pressure. So instead of trying to backfill posts (like I’m tempted to do) I’m just going to dump lots of photos here and let you see what I’ve been up to recently.

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I went to California in October and I snagged this shot out of my car window before heading to St. Louis to catch my flight. Chloe looks out the window at me every time I leave the house, and I loved having Kevin in this photo too.

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My trip to California was a surprise that only my mom and I were in on, so it was fun to show up and catch everyone off guard. I love a good secret and it was so fun to be there for my cousin’s birthday. We got to do a lot of normal stuff – soccer games, bake cakes, and sit on the patio in the nice weather.

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Kevin and I aren’t huge fans of costumes, so we normally put off deciding on one until the last minute. This year we went for something super easy that we could wear over our normal clothes. Best. Decision. Ever.

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We were gifted a DNA test for Chloe and it turns out that all of her recent ancestors are labrador retrievers. Not sure where she got her height, weight and personality from, but we love joking about her being a purebred.

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The California fam was in town the weekend before Thanksgiving, so we opted not to head home again for Thanksgiving day. I worked both Wednesday and Friday so it made sense not to drive to St. Louis for less than 24 hours. It was the first Thanksgiving that we didn’t spend with family, but we were lucky enough to be invited to Thanksgiving with our sweet friends. These pies? All handmade by Claire.

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The following weekend, Taylor and I spent the weekend in Wisconsin for Brittany’s birthday. We had a blast meeting Evan, shopping, eating and breaking out of escape rooms. I knew I had found a new favorite city when I found my way into a bookstore that had a collectors edition of Gone with the Wind and a complete copy of the Chronicles of Narnia before we even left the airport.

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To celebrate Kevin’s birthday and some job changes, we ate dinner at our favorite steak house. This place is right around the corner from us, and gosh darn it, we can smell it every. single. night. We love a good meal and this is the best place on the planet, especially when it’s all decorated for Christmas.

Untitled by Jacqueline and Kevin Reape on 500px.comThis photo was from our small group Christmas party. We joined the small group and met all these lovely folks (pictured below) in September and became fast friends. I can’t get over how thankful I am for this group.

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Untitled by Jacqueline and Kevin Reape on 500px.com

Kevin finally let me put up the Christmas tree the day after Thanksgiving (for the record, he was the one who put the outside Christmas lights up on November 21st last year (Instagram Evidence) . I purchased this tree for $6 three years ago when I was working at Walgreens. Since we moved into our house, I’ve been looking for a taller replacement but haven’t found anything that fits the space. This was the first year I included the Hallmark ornaments my parents have bought for me over the last 26 years as well as Kevin’s childhood ornaments. I have to admit, the sweet memories made me like the tree a little bit more.

Helmi’s Garden

Helmi's Garden by Jacqueline and Kevin Reape on 500px.com

Helmi's Garden by Jacqueline and Kevin Reape on 500px.com

Helmi's Garden by Jacqueline and Kevin Reape on 500px.com

Helmi's Garden by Jacqueline and Kevin Reape on 500px.com

Helmi's Garden by Jacqueline and Kevin Reape on 500px.com

Helmi's Garden by Jacqueline and Kevin Reape on 500px.com

Helmi's Garden by Jacqueline and Kevin Reape on 500px.comphoto by Sarah

Helmi's Garden by Jacqueline and Kevin Reape on 500px.com

Helmi's Garden by Jacqueline and Kevin Reape on 500px.com

A beautiful morning that felt like an escape from the real world. These moments are my favorite.

Currently

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CELEBRATING: Kevin asked me to be his girlfriend in September eight years ago, so we’re celebrating all of our adventures since then. He even surprised me with a beautiful bouquet of flowers!

WATCHING: Lately, I’ve been watching YouTube videos more than anything else. I tend to listen to or watch crafty videos while I’m working on my own projects, so some of my current favorites are Cori at The Reset Girl, Ali Brown, Courtney at Little Raven Ink, and Adele at Inkie Quill. There are also a couple of new music videos I’ve watched recently: P!NK and Taylor Swift.

WELCOMING: It feels like the weather in mid-Missouri has really cooled down, so we’ve been welcoming the nice fall-like weather with more outdoor activities. Bring on the PSL, leaves, layered clothes, and football games.

PREPARING: College football and tailgating generally takes up a lot of our falls (in the best way possible) and this year we are adding some basketball to the mix starting in November. We’re preparing and hoping for a great sports season here!

PHOTOGRAPHING: Labor day weekend really helped me get back behind my camera. Each year over Labor Day weekend, I shoot our family golf tournament and then I also brought my camera along to a church picnic that we attended. I always notice that the more I use my camera, the more I want to continue using it.


Today I’m joining Anne, at In Residence, for a ‘Currently’ linkup that she hosts on the first Wednesday of every month. Be sure to pop over and see what everyone else is up to!

Thrive | September Goals

September is here and it’s bringing all of my favorite things – football games, nicer weather, and all of the pumpkin flavored things. For the first time this year, August actually felt the length it was meant to be. We had a lot going on including multiple weekends out of town, so it will be nice to stick around town this month. Mizzou’s plays three weekends in a row at home during September, so we are looking forward to all of the excitement that brings. Kevin has been to every home game but one in the past seven years and I’ve been to almost as many, if that gives you any idea of how seriously we take our Tigers.

August was full of being absolutely spoiled my my family and friends. I’m coming at you from a new computer and have some fancy headphones to match, thanks to my thoughtful hubby. Speaking of, we went on our first photoshoot together, which was a total blast. I’m looking forward to a lot more dates like this in the future and I’ll definitely get around to sharing some more photos soon.

On the Blog In August:

August Goals Recap:

Monthly

  • Celebrate turning 26 – Turning 26 was so much easier for me than turning 25 was. I was spoiled rotten and celebrated myself by making my annual birthday cheesecake.
  • Schedule a hair cut with a new stylist – This was a fiasco and I ended up getting my haircut by the same stylist I’ve been going to for the past two years. It turned out just fine, but maybe I’ll get to try someone new in the future.
  • Read Artist’s Way and complete challenges – Done and still keeping up with morning pages on a regular basis. I’m glad to be putting some of these practices into my life.
  • Send two cards using the INK app – Dang, I really wish I would have done this. I’m adding it again for September.

Daily

  • 8 Hours of sleep each night – Since I was being intentional this month, I did a LOT better on this than I normally do.
  • Low FODMAP foods – I mentioned last month that my doctor suggested the low FOD MAP diet for me. I did a lot better eating this way but I’m trying to do even better in September.
  • Journal – Straight up knocked it out of the park.
  • Workouts – I’m proud of what I did but am looking to ramp that up with more walks and outdoor runs in September.
  • Oils – Done and done!

September Goals

Monthly

  • Celebrate 8 (!!!) years with Kevin
  • Take photos at my family’s annual golf tournament
  • Get my passport – I’ve been meaning to update this since we got married, but haven’t gotten around to it. This needs to happen this month.
  • Schedule another photo shoot with Kevin
  • Send some thank you and encouragement cards – Hand written cards are my favorites but like I mentioned above, I didn’t quite get to the INK ones from last month so I want to incorporate a couple of those as well.

Daily

  • Move my body + Quiet Time + Essential Oils

Quarterly Book Report

My goal for the year was 15 books, but based on the way I’m powering through them this year, I’m going to have to up that for 2018. I’m sharing more about what I’m reading because it’s one of my favorite posts on other blogs. I’ve found the best way to keep my nose in a book is to join group book clubs at work, they sure are keeping me busy.

★★★★★ – All time favorite, there aren’t many of these in the world.

★★★★☆ – Loved this book, held my attention and made me want to keep reading.

★★★☆☆ – Good book, I liked it.

★★☆☆☆ – It was fine, definitely won’t be recommending it to my friends.

★☆☆☆☆ – I finished it, but it wasn’t that great.

☆☆☆☆☆ – Didn’t bother finishing it. There are too many books on the shelf to finish one that isn’t grabbing my attention.


The Silkworm (Cormoran Strike, #2) + Career of Evil (Cormoran Strike, #3)

by Robert Galbraith (Pseudonym J.K. Rowling)

Fiction – Mystery | ★★★★☆

I read the first book in the series after I found out that this novel was written by J.K. Rowling under a pseudonym. I’m a huge Harry Potter fan and was hoping to get my fill from the first one in the series. Unfortunately, it’s very different from the HP series, but fortunately, it was a really great read. It’s been about 3 years or so since I read the first in the series, but that didn’t affect the reading of these books, which I appreciated. Similar to the first, these two feature private detective Cormoran Stike and his assistant Robin Ellacott who spend both books searching for pieces of the puzzle that hopefully lead to solving the mystery.

You might like this if: your a J.K. Rowling fan and enjoyed the first book in the series.


Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less

by Greg McKeown

Non-Fiction – Self Help | ★★★★☆

I grabbed this book up after seeing so many of my Good Reads friends rate it highly and while I don’t disagree with their rating, it could have been about 100 pages shorter and still covered all major points. I think my main takeaways included not being afraid to be unavailable, choosing priorities that get you where you want to end up, and allowing things the time they need to be completed. Overall a good read, especially for someone like me who tends to overplan and set high expectations for myself.

You might like this if: you want to learn how to be more productive while doing less.


Under Our Skin: Getting Real About Race and Getting Free From the Fears and Frustrations that Divide Us

by Benjamin Watson

Nonfiction | ★★★★★

Benjamin Watson is a tight end for the New Orlean Saints and on the day after the grand jury decision was announced that there was no probable cause to indict officer Darren Wilson of the shooting of Michael Brown, Benjamin wrote a heart felt facebook post which quickly went viral. This book is his expanded thoughts on each of the topics he touched on in the post. Not only was this a thought provoking read for me, a group of us at work got to get together to talk about about it. I think everyone would benefit from reading this book.

Favorite Quote: “The solution to the problem of race in America will be found only by ordinary people, “good” people, looking inside themselves, being honest about the assumptions and biases that have formed, and beginning to change what’s in their hearts.”

You might like this if: you’re hoping to understand a clearer picture of the ongoing race issues in America.


Make it Happen: Surrender Your Fear. Take the Leap. Live on Purpose.

by Lara Casey

Nonfiction – Self Help/Christian | ★★★★☆

I just love Lara and have been following her blog for quite some time. I began using her PowerSheets this year and found this book to be a great companion to that. She talks a lot about letting go of the “do it all” mentality in order to move forward on purpose. It’s thought provoking and includes sections to stop and think about implementing the things she talks about in your own life. Not really a leisurely read, but so worth it.

You might like this if: you like goal setting or feel like you are constantly striving for perfection.


All the Words are Yours: Haiku on Love

by Tyler Knott Gregson

Poetry | ★☆☆☆☆

I picked this book up because I saw another book by this author at Anthropology and figured it had to be good. I was wrong, this is one of those pretty books that looks nice on a book shelf but takes two seconds to read. I actually feel pretty bad giving it this low of a rating, because he probably put lots of emotion into these poems but there’s just too much lovey dovey and bad photos for me to rate it any better.

This sums it up nicely.

You might like this if: you’re a writer and want to get inspiration or want short bits of lovey poems.


Creativity, Inc: Overcoming the Unseen Forces That Stand in the Way of True Inspiration

by Ed Catmull, Amy Wallace

Nonfiction – Business/Leadership | ★★★★☆

This book has been recommended to me multiple times since I became a leader at work, so I just knew it had to be on my reading list this year. From the get-go, this book kept me more interested than maybe any other nonfiction book has. I was so interested to hear about starting a company from the ground up and hearing about how big name people like Steve Jobs have made an impact not on the world but on the people who worked with him as well. I think what I related to this in particular was how leadership style and creativity go hand in hand. There were times I felt myself nodding along and there were times I scribbled down lots of notes. All I have to say is that I love books like these because they help make me a better leader.

Favorite Quote: “I believe the best managers acknowledge and make room for what they do not know—not just because humility is a virtue but because until one adopts that mindset, the most striking breakthroughs cannot occur. I believe that managers must loosen the controls, not tighten them. They must accept risk; they must trust the people they work with and strive to clear the path for them; and always, they must pay attention to and engage with anything that creates fear. Moreover, successful leaders embrace the reality that their models may be wrong or incomplete. Only when we admit what we don’t know can we ever hope to learn it.”

You might like this if: you’re a leader or like learning about business in general.


Love Lives Here: Finding What You Need in a World Telling You What You Want

by Maria Goff

Nonfiction – Christian | ★★★☆☆

I still don’t know what to think of this book. I’ve read a couple books in the last year or so that have been heavily marketed towards women that are faith based but aren’t necessarily a bible study and, in general, I just haven’t had great experiences. I read this with a group at work and I was one of the few women who don’t have children. Although it prompted great discussion about craving the things in life that matter, it’s was very clear to me that I wasn’t the target audience of this book. I found it particularly hard to connect with her examples and often felt indifferent to her woes. Her husband, Bob Goff, who wrote Love Does, is a missionary lawyer who does mission in other countries so Maria talks a lot about her experiences doing mission in her home and community. Overall, not awful, just not for me.

You might like this if: you want a quick read that will encourage you right where you’re at.


Endurance: Shackleton’s Incredible Voyage

by Alfred Lansing

Nonfiction – History/Leadership | ☆☆☆☆☆

This year, I joined a leadership team at work and we were given a list of books to pick from that we would meet to discuss on a monthly basis. This was not my choice, but it won the majority so we went with it. It was encouraged as a leadership related book and while I’d love to say that it really opened my eyes to something, it really didn’t and I ended up not finishing it. Thank goodness for the internet and summaries that have gotten me through the discussions.

You might like this if: you’re really into history and LOTS of details about ice floes/ships.

 

What books are you loving right now? Let me know in the comments so I can give more five star reviews!

About

Hi, I'm Jacqueline - believer, learner, and all around hobby enthusiast. I'm married to my highschool sweetheart, Kevin, and we live in the midwest with our sweet pup.

On this blog I share all kinds of things about my life - from my faith journey to the garden in my neighbors backyard. I've been blogging for almost eight years and use this space as a way to document my daily life.

Thanks for stopping by my little corner of the internet.